Hahaha, well, you can do it either way, but the way to keep from burning them up is to put the metal side to the head, asbestos side to the header. If you ever notice, long after you have burn't the paint off headers, your heads still have paint on them, even close to the exhaust port. Thats because the water jacket is pulling the heat away from that head to try and keep things cool....Next time you have your heat gun out...check it out