Nas T said:
Mikey and Ron(RPM) are fantastic guys and would do anything for you and other t bucket guys, it is just sometimes Mikey does seem like he's selling everything he has but Mikey is just making conversation.
I've had a few samples of Mikey's 'conversation' and I'm really struggling to reconcile that with your description of him being a fantastic guy.
There's really no need for any explanation of Mikey's behavior. He inquired a few weeks back about purchasing advertising on this site and never followed up with it. The next we see of him were the posts that were seen as self-promotional by several members, in addition to myself. I contacted him, privately, to explain I couldn't throw my paying advertisers under the bus by allowing him to promote his own services for free. I asked him for permission to edit those portions of his posts and then I was suddenly being faced with Mikey's 'conversation', both in private and on the open forums.
I do not know Mikey personally, However I would be lying to say his reputation hadn't preceded him here. He may be willing to perform services for free and that's great. I admire him for his willingness to help others. But we have advertisers who stand to lose income because of his big heart. If they lose income because of what a single member has done on this site, we all stand to lose the benefit of their advertising dollars. ( Do you
really want this site to become subscription-only??)
So tell me, to whom shall I listen and show my support? Those who help this site to exist or those who want to bull in here and start telling me how I need to change things to suit them? I hope you see how rhetorical my question really is.
We have a tick over 900 members and have now had a grand total of 2 or 3 storm out of here, because we weren't willing to allow them to dictate forum policy to everyone else. That amounts to less than .4% of the total membership. That figure is astonishingly low and one that I am quite willing to accept. One thing I've never been shy about admitting is that there is absolutely no way of making everyone happy all of the time. It's pie in the sky and I remind the forum staff members to not set themselves up for failure by trying to accomplish the impossible. There are going to be times when someone will be upset by a decision made to please other members. I don't have a magic wand and I cannot change that fact.
complaining will never get you anywhere.
Exactly!
Youngster said:
if you want to contrubute fine, you will be welcomed with open arms. if you're bringing aditude with you, please check it at the door. it's not needed here. i can assure you, you will be welcomed without it.
Youngster, you've just done a first-class job of condensing the forum rules and guidelines down into a few brief sentences. I hope everyone will read what you had to say and will understand just how easy it really is.
I'm genuinely sorry this post became necessary, but I think it is far better to air this issue out, rather than letting it continue to fester.
Hopefully, we will now be able to put all this behind us and busy ourselves enjoying T-Buckets again. (Yes, that is a hint.
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