Lots of great comments. The purpose of me writing this thread was that I didn't realise how over my "budget" I had gone. From the start, I just KNEW I could pull this off for about $8K. If I had been able to get a kit, I probably could have. But having to save for every piece, doing some stuff myself and having friends who chipped in was part of the fun. It was probably safer as well. See, I'm the type who tends to rush when I have a goal in sight. If I'd had everything laid out in front of me, I probably would have rushed into it and either ruined something or (worse) skipped some things. Only being able to do things as money and time allowed, made me take my time and study each part and how it worked.
I'd never done anything this big before. I learned a lot about cars and myself. Stuff I never would have known without this experience. As for a plan, in my mind I'd built a T Bucket 10 times over. I had been reading magazines and listening to what others said for almost 34 years before I decided to build this car. It was just a matter of time.
As someone mentioned, it's the little things that we don't count on that explode the budget. Honestly, I don't think having a budget would have helped. If you're like me, the enthusiasim takes over and you find a way to get what you think you NEED.
I have two best experiences since getting into this. One was when PaulR came over and we went for a drive up and down the street. It was great to share the fun and besides, if you're gonna go in a bucket, might as well take a buddy with ya. (just kidding) Two was the first REAL drive. I remember I returned, parked, sat down, lit a smoke and just stared at Miss Behavin'. While I was happy nothing broke and I hadn't killed myself, there was also a void. A feeling of "what now?". I think that's why these cars are never done. There will always be "I think I need that".
So, for you guys doing this for the first time... keep going. Don't ever feel you can't do it. When it's all done and you get home.... pat yourself on the back. Then, find something else you can do to her. She is, after all, NEVER done.