Don't forget that the braking system comes into play as well. For example, a 5:1 pedal arm ratio will not hold a car as easily as an 8:1 ratio.
And we finally have a winner!
Jeff, you get the gold star for the day.
Fred, to answer your question, there are a lot of variables that determine and affect a converter's stall speed. First off, a converter behind a torquey big block in a heavy car will always have a higher stall speed than the same converter behind a 300 CID small block in a flyweight car. Unless we start changing other variables, like vehicle weight, rear gear ratio, low gear ratio, tire size, brake bias, etc. 409T has identified the biggest reason T-Buckets 'want' looser converters - brake bias is generally wonky.
A lower gear ratio will cause a converter to couple at a lower RPM. In most instances, a larger cam profile will cause a converter to couple at a lower RPM. A combination that works well at sea level will see a different stall speed at higher altitude. Changing valve lash .010" can make a surprising change in stall speed. As will changes in intake runner volume, lobe separation angle, compression ratio, header primary diameter and collector length. So some very minor differences can make a converter react differently in your car than it did in another car.
Don, you're right when you say most tech lines will err to the smaller side of things. But what most people do not understand is that the reason tech lines exist is to help potential customers with
technical questions. And as much as people hate hearing it, my experience manning a tech line for 25+ years was naught more than proof the average call is a lesson in lunacy, rather than having technology at its heart.. The vast majority of calls to a tech line should be known as idiot calls, rather than tech calls. I'm not trying to cast aspersions on anyone, I'm just calling it as I saw it.
Torque converter selection is touchy stuff and there are numerous and seemingly insignificant variables that can really change a converter's personality. The average tech line caller doesn't know the critical variables, things like compression ration, stroke, rod length, cam centerline, runner volumes, header diameters, primary lengths, collector lengths, collector design, vehicle weight, rear gear ratio, trans gear ratios, tire height, etc. And, as I mentioned above, you can really change a converter by just adding .010" more lash to the intake rockers. Some people think knowing advertised lift and duration on a cam profile is all a tech line will ever need, but is the cam straight up, or has it been rolled one way or the other? And then, you ask the guy the really important question - is this a car that will always be driven on the street, or do you intend to bolt on a set of slicks and run it at a prepared drag strip? Because a car on street tires is likely never going to hurt a sprag, but a car that can really get the shovel in the dirt might grenade it. Then try to explain why the cost of the sprags are so drastically different.
So yes, the people manning the tech lines are generally in CYA mode. With hundreds of excellent reasons. All of them being on the other end of that phone connection.