Have you given any thought to selling the site to someone else to help with your personal life?
When I can't get enough money to cover the monthly expenses, there's no way I could ever get what the site would be worth in a sale.
There are all kinds of problems with almost all the suggestions. Sure, if all 2,969 members would donate $12, that would be wonderful. But this forum is just like every other forum on the Web - most people register, log in a time or two, lose interest before they every submit their first post and never return. I just went through the entire member list a few weeks back and removed all the avatars from member accounts that have not been active in the last two years. I removed half of the avatars we had stored, if you can believe it. It wasn't huge, but I did regain some storage space, as a result.
I've never much cared for the idea of deleting inactive member accounts, but if I were to do that, I bet I could easily cut the member count in half.
When it comes down to it, an average day will see 105 - 120 members actually logging into their accounts. So that will give you an idea of how many active, participating members we really have. If each of those members were to donate just $3 each month, then we would be able to break even each month. It's really not so much. But there are people who simply cannot afford it. Heck, I'm one of them. So how can I sit here and point fingers at people who do not donate, without knowing their own financial situations? And now, you see why I won't do just that.
If the site can support itself, it will live on. If it cannot, it will become a thing of the past. There are loads of businesses closing their doors, every day of the week, so there's no reason for any of us to think it cannot happen here. It really is just that simple. I've worried about it all I intend to worry. I've much more important things to be concerned with, to be honest.