Well Chris, oil on your plugs are caused by these things:
1. oil being sucked in thru the intake where the intake joins the head
2. one of the umbrella shields in top of the valve guide improperly installed, left out or wore out, ie, used part got thrown in
3. rings not seating because of pcv problems, motor bores not honed correctly, etc.
Were these the same 2 plugs that were wet earlier with the intake difficulties?
Well, heres what you need to do, pull both your valve covers, put on a couple with the tops cut out, start the motor, and make sure the oil drainback holes are open so the oil doesn't stand to the rear of the head. Also, with the motor running, make sure the guides on the rear 2 cylinders aren't sloppy. Your not worried about exhaust valves, just the intakes.
Also, make sure theres a seal on top of the valve guides. Being bargain basement specials, they might've accidently left them out.
Once we get the Oil off the plugs, then we'll continue on with the backfiring stuff....but I think its in the EFI, probably a bad sensor or connection...or timing
Ron is right! Hang Tough Kid! Your gonna make helluva Mechanic!